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FAQ

»  Are those women real?
»  How many women should I write to, to get a response?
»  I want to write a letter to the woman but she has only a postal address. I want her to receive my letter as fast as possible. Can you help me?
»  How do I get started?
»  Are your ladies still available?
»  Should I send money to the ladies if they ask for it?
»  How does the whole thing work? What is the success rate? How I can attain the best success?
»  Any Letter writing tips or helpful hints?
»  How long should I correspond with a lady before I make a decision?

Are those women real?
Yes, they are. All women on this site are actively trying to find a foreign man for marriage. Before adding any profile we personally communicate with every woman. We update our database on a regular basis and we have only women who are actively looking for a husband.
How many women should I write to, to get a response?

You can write to as many women as you want and if you are a member it will cost you nothing. You can also use the professional translation service for your correspondence. This service makes easier your communication with women. All translations are done as soon as possible. Based on experience we can say that if you write to only one or two ladies, you are limiting your chances. It is a good idea to write to about 10 ladies you like and include a good photo of yourself..

I want to write a letter to the woman but she has only a postal address. I want her to receive my letter as fast as possible. Can you help me?
If you want her to receive your letter as fast as possible then you should use our mail-forwarding service. In this case lady will get your letter immediately after you send her a letter. Just compare it with ordinary postal mail – at least 2 – 3 weeks for your letter to be delivered, at least 2 – 3 weeks for lady’s reply to be delivered back to.
How do I get started?
Use the search page to find the ladies you are looking for or let us find HER for you.
Are your ladies still available?
All the ladies you can meet on our web site are available and are interested in the correspondence with you, men. In case she has already found her life-partner by means of our web site we delete her profile from our catalogue immediately. That’s why there are no reasons for your being worried that you are corresponding with an unreal woman.
Should I send money to the ladies if they ask for it?
Do not send money to the ladies. We also recommend you to forget about any lady WHO ASKS FOR MONEY because most likely a lady who would request money from you is not legitimate. Russian morals do not allow people to ask for money from a non-family member. If one of our ladies requests money from you for any purpose please let us know by forwarding the letter to our manager.
How does the whole thing work? What is the success rate? How I can attain the best success?

There are no secrets, all ladies love decisive men, and if you are persistent, you have a good chance! We are sure you will find your lady if you are serious in your intentions. Certainly you should take some effort, creativity and your time…
Some tips:

  1. It is necessary to present the pictures of good quality.
  2. It is very important to fill in the registration form the right way: not to provide us with the false information, to express your thoughts clearly and try to distinguish your merits.
  3. Since you search for true lady, remember that true lady search for a man who is true gentleman!
  4. Carefully consider how you will fill in the form. We understand that many of us are not writers who write novels but try to describe yourself correctly.
  5. Fields like “Personal”, “Interests” and “More About partner” are very important. They along with your photo make the first impression about you. Think over everything up to the smallest detail…
  6. Remember that English is not the native language of the Russian women. Try to write in easy and clear text without a slang…
  7. If you have any questions about filling the registration form please mail to our manager.

Any Letter writing tips or helpful hints?

Here are a few things that have worked very well for me and they may help you. First letter should be informative yet interesting.
The Do NOT’s:

  • I never mentioned dislikes. Never have anything negative in your letters. Its a sure turn off. Always be positive and optimistic about life.

  • Never write something your not able to expand upon or deliver. Most Russian ladies will keep your letter if they want to pursue getting to know you better. They will ask about something you wrote ten letters ago so make sure you are honest.

  • Never use slang words. Write simple clear sentences. Good interpretation is important.

  • Don’t talk about your business accomplishments. Most ladies do not care to know all the details. Its enough for them to know you are able to support a family. What they want to understand is you and what your personality is like and what your views are about life, relationships, and family.

  • Don’t send a photograph of you and some friends drinking or at a beach with some woman hanging on you (use common sense).

  • Never talk about “Russian” problems. No matter how much you think you know about Russia you will never know it or see like a Russia does.

The Do’s:

  • Be energetic and enthusiastic about life and about meeting that perfect someone to share your life with.

  • Be kind and courteous at all times. Be a gentleman. Russian women love respect (as all women do).

  • Always write (on your first letter at least) with great curiosity about her and her life and interest. Make the letter equally informative about you as you are requesting information about her. Keep things equal.

  • Russian women want to know you have interest in the whole “package”. They like talking about families.

  • The last and most important thing is to just be yourself. Write what you feel and try to avoid the Do Not’s. Keep things real and in perspective. Women of all cultures want a man who is realistic. Russian women demand trust so do not break trust with them early on. Be honest be yourself and most of all be a gentleman.

  • If you are still finding yourself with problems in letter writing check out the message board. There are many people who are dating Russian ladies who can share some of their experiences with you.

Good Luck!

How long should I correspond with a lady before I make a decision?
Every case is individual and it depends on both of you. Sometimes it is necessary a few months to learn a person and sometimes it takes the whole life to learn a person. No wonder that you need to meet to get to know each other better.